Encouragement
Human beings are truly challenged by the unknown .No matter how acclaimed, how successful, how prosperous or how achieved you become, we will always go and search out that one missing piece. An unresolved from childhood, a blimp in time or even maybe an incomplete from the yester years always seems to draw us back to resolving, finding, completing and closure.
It can just be one word, thought or even event that will shock you into this search. Adults go looking for birth parents. Children go looking for fathers that once abandoned them. Fathers search out estranged daughters. Grandparents look for their grandchildren. Siblings find each other after being separated from birth.
How true this is. The circle of Life wants to be complete. We want to be fed with answers for long overdue questions. We want to know “WHY”. Why did you leave? Why didn’t you stay in touch? Why did you walk away? Why didn’t you try to make it work? Where did we go wrong? What happened?
There are so many questions generations are asking and so many empty spaces because of missing pieces. It can take anything from a word to a sentence to jog someone out of sync from the present into a total disarray to find answers for their past. Some adults have missed out on loving their children because they were not loved and feel robbed and unschooled in this life’s lesson.
Marriages become miserable and rocky based on individuals settling for someone new as a replacement for the one childhood sweetheart that walked away. A hidden love so rooted, a bitterness so great that blinds them from the one who is right before them.
Lives go on hold. Families break up over newly discovered secrets. Children walk away from adoptive parents to find birth parents. There is a deep-rooted search in each and every one of us and until we find these answers. We feel so incomplete, so rejected, so unwanted and so alone. There is this puzzle of our lives that has missing pieces. The picture is incomplete when a part of us miss.
The sad thing is we take the missing pieces of our past and destroy the present picture .We are so stuck in what we did not have, we forget to see what we have. We have lost so much of time concentrating of all that we lost; we forget to hold on to those we have. The wrongs of the past may never be re-written but the story is still not finished yet.
It’s time to let go of all the wrongs of yesterday and move into the new level of anointing. Its time to progress into a new season of dispensation and the new place that God has for us. Closure sometimes may not be the best outcome you fathom it to be. We live in the world and in this world you will have many troubles, many sorrows, many heartbreaks and many people who will leave without a moments notice. Don’t leave life hanging out of bounce because you are missing a few scenes, a few some ones and a few hugs.
When God created Adam and Eve, he had a will for them and instructed them accordingly. They stepped out of God’s will by choice and God in his loving kindness made a provision. God has willed many roads for us but sometimes when we choose alternately or others that were joined with us choose alternatively then God’s provision for us comes into place. You know how after 20 years of marriage, he thinks he can do better. You spend the rest of your years dwindling in rejection because a piece of you is missing. Well this is the right time to move over to the next puzzle called provision and start fresh with a new picture. You can either use the previous puzzle as a stepping-stone or ladder to the next scene.
It’s not as easy as I am saying it but it is made available. There are some adults that must know in their heart why a parent or both parents abandoned them. They would not move on in their lives with their spouses or children. They feel unable to love because they were unloved. These are heart- wrenching issues with deep seeded wounds that go beyond a few warm gestures and kind words.
The emotions generated must be experienced, dealt with and overcome. However we have to reach to the higher than I for a healing touch and a clear direction. The only one who can heal such wounds is the one who created you. The designer is the only one that can re-design you. Go to the Great I Am and he will mend, sew, knit and reconstruct you to his perfect plan.
Life just may never pan out in a fairy tale fashion but for every villainous act towards you, there are many more heroic gestures of blessings to counteract. For every person that abandoned you or left you or deserted you, there are so many more present to love you, cherish you and appreciate you.
Missing pieces must not imprison you in your past but rather direct you to leave a complete picture behind for the generation to come. Stop missing out and start living.
There are so much of memories to make for the future. There is so much more to life to live and see. There are so many more dreams to fulfill and laughter to share. Holding on to yesterday stops the sun from shining today.
Go on, step into God’s provision for you. What you have been holding on for may not have kept the other’s lives behind. You are not moving forward but everyone else is. Realign your thought patterns, life cycle and present-day actions. Embrace life with the favour of change and a new day. If you have been searching and you cannot seem to face tomorrow without solving yesterday then too much of time has been lost already.
Some chapters are left without endings for one day when you meet your master creator, God the father and he will have all the answers to all the questions ever asked. By then you would have realized how it did not matter who stayed, who left, who walked away, who rejected you, who did not say goodbye and who said goodbye. All the whys of life would just not seem so meaningful anymore?
You would wish you laughed more, dreamed more, cared more and loved more. You would wish you did not waste time but lived in the fullness of time. Stop, look up , look ahead and start living. Focus on the future and the fullness of God’s glory to sustain you and move you into new territory. God has ordained everyday of our lives to be lived as it is in heaven and I don’t think heaven wants us to live sad and despondent. Let today be the start of something new. Let God have his way in your heart, life and situation. I urge you to take a deep sigh and when you let out that breath , may it be the last time you will ever sigh over that situation.
Prayer for you
I declare a new day for you in Jesus name. I declare a prophetic word of praise that you will manifest in the fullness of God’s design for your life. I declare that heaven knows your name and Jesus calls you to be too relevant to go unnoticed. May the blessed call you blessed and may you live liberated from today onwards. In Jesus name I ask all of these mercies and seal it with the blood of the lamb.. Amen
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